It has been my honor, over the past 25 years, to help people make hard decisions such as giving up a home of 50 years for a retirement community or a downsized condo. One comes to this decision from various paths; economic reasons, health concerns, loss of spouse or wanting to relocate near adult children. Sometimes, just because home maintenance is too much and the senior wants to travel or have less of the “have to do” chores in their life.
What I do know is that people who are socially engaged live longer and happier lives according to research. That individuals who have purpose and meaning in their lives are healthier than their peers without purpose. I also know that people who have had major losses through death of spouses or friends that continue to have meaningful lives live longer as well.
So, if you or someone you love is facing this dilemma you should consider having at least one hour with a Professional Geriatric Care Manager who can help you with your list of pros and cons before making a major move. It is often beneficial for the elder to have this conversation with an objective professional; so the end result is your decision and not influenced by family members’ or friend’s value systems.
More and more Baby Boomers are thinking long range and looking at options early in their “autumn” years. Better to be prepared than have to make decisions in a crisis.