Visiting Mom on day 6 of her move into assisted living, she points to the bag of nicely folded laundry and says “Isn’t that nice, they did my laundry and it is free.” As you know, it is part of the rent but she sees it as a luxury. Mind you, my mother’s favorite household Read More
Mom is Adjusting But Am I?
Mom has been in assisted living for 5 days and I question myself about making this decision for this level of care – thinking maybe she was more impaired and this level of care would not be able to accommodate her. She was unable to use the new remote (but those can be a challenge Read More
Mom Had a Stroke – If I Move Her, Will She Still Love Me?
Wow, as I walked into my mom’s rehab room yesterday – she pointed to me and said to the aid behind her, “I don’t like her – she put me here.” Mind you, she is in one of the best rehab centers she could be in post stroke and one that is sometimes difficult to Read More
Autonomy vs. Safety: A Dilemma for Families Caring for Seniors
Do you allow Mom to smoke, despite her dementia and living alone in a senior apartment complex? Do you respect your Dad’s right and autonomy despite his 90+ years of life? With poor vision and beginning forgetfulness, do you allow him to drive across the state to see an old friend who is ill? Adult Read More
Mom is Moving In!
“Clean out a room, change your schedule and your social life- Mom is moving in.” Your mother has had a change of status and can no longer live alone. You think it is best that she move in with you because you just retired and have the time to care for her. The desire and Read More
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